Hello,
Hope you’re doing well. Would you take a few moments to help me with a self-awareness exercise? I’m sending this short list of questions to folks that I trust to help me understand how I impact the world around me. I trust you to be as honest as possible so that your input can do the most good. Would you answer the questions below and send them to me as soon as you can? I completely understand if you don’t have the time to do this. Thank you!

1. What is a person most likely to experience when they encounter me? (This a neutral question: the answer could be positive or constructively “negative.”)

2. What are the usual things you can count on from me? (This a neutral question: the answer could be positive or constructively “negative.”)

3. What are the things that you can seldom count on from me? (This a neutral question: the answer could be positive or constructively “negative.”)

4. Is there something about me that you think I don’t know yet? (This is a neutral question: the answer can be positive or constructively “negative.”)

5. Based on your interactions with me, what is the thing (or things) you think matters most to me? (This is a neutral question: the answer can be positive or constructively “negative.”)

Thank you again for your time!